My Father-In-Law Has Terminal Cancer. What Do We Tell the Grandchildren?

Yikes! The good news here, if there is any, is that the word “cancer” does not need to strike the terror in us that it used to. Many forms are, of course, very treatable, and across the spectrum …

My Father-In-Law Has Terminal Cancer. What Do We Tell the Grandchildren?

Yikes.  The good news here, if there is any, is that the word “cancer” does not need to strike the terror in us that it used to.  Many forms are, of course, very treatable, and …

Mom and Dad clearly need help at home…and they say, “NO WAY.” Help!!

Well … You are not alone. Anecdotally, I can confidently report that 80-90% of clients coming onto service for care with Aberdeen were initially very resistant and insisted that they did not have …

SENIOR HIGHLIGHTS | September 20

There is a lot set to happen with the Council on Aging (COA) in the coming weeks.  Check them out here, and for  on any of these great trips  or to reserve your seat on the van, please …

Let’s All Have a Fall-Free Season

As we transition from summer to fall and then into the colder months of winter, it's not just the leaves that change—our bodies experience shifts in sleep cycles, mood, metabolism, and brain …

Self-Care Means …. What Exactly?

Commonly, “self-care” gives the vibe of a luxury spa where one is spoiled and pampered.  This sounds great, but it is not what I propose we consider here. Those of us of a …

Final Four Walks in Longevity Bench Challenge

Longevity Bench Project board member Jane Metrano at the organizations birthday celebration this summer, which featured an amazing cake of the entire Bench Project map.

Come participate in the Bench Walk Challenge for the  final four walks  from August 31 to October 9.  The Longevity Bench Project members and walk leaders encourage individuals, …

Our daughter's wedding is next month…it will break her heart if my Dad can’t go.
As August approaches, our family is filled with excitement and anticipation for our daughter's upcoming wedding.  It's a milestone event, a celebration of love and unity that we have been …
How’s your Dragon?
If you don’t relate to the title of this article, you are either blissfully absenting yourself from current events, or you slipped into a black hole while you weren’t paying attention. …
Heirlooms or clutter?
By Joanne MacInnis RN CDP, President, Aberdeen Home Care, Inc. Mom’s house is packed…Where will it all go? For those of us who have been through it, we attest that this is …
My grandchild is graduating…What in the world can I give them?
Years ago, it might have been a fancy pen set, a watch, or a briefcase.   But times change, and so do the tokens of our affection.   What will be forever meaningful to your graduate long …
Memorial Day….
For the last 55 years, I have made a late May pilgrimage to Rosedale Cemetery in Manchester.  Many readers will have and continue to share this experience.  This annual event has much to offer …
Weddings…Showers…Graduations…OH MY!
Various factors impact our ability to “do what we used to.”  However, accommodations can usually be made for many areas of need.  As we fly head-first into graduation and …
Has the world gone mad?
It certainly feels like it.   Violent and dangerous behavior seems to be standard. We aren’t shocked by mass shootings anymore.   A cargo ship takes down a major inner city bridge, …
Just about everything falls apart at some point
Not all at once, but with use and years, parts fail.   Whether it’s a car, a dishwasher, or our bodies, time takes its toll.   What are we to do with that nugget of reality? In …
Essex Senior Living | Feb 9
The Essex Council on Aging offers a variety of fantastic events and trips for seniors.   For further information or to sign up for an event, please call the Essex COA Office at 978-768-7932 or …
Sickness is everywhere… How do we stay healthy?
Viral and bacterial infections are rampant and are responsible for spiking emergency room visits and hospital admissions.   Our vaccines and disease-acquired immunity are not protecting us as we …
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How older adults can best prepare for surgery
(BPT) - By Patricia L. Turner, MD, MBA, FACS, Executive Director & CEO, American College of SurgeonsFor people of all ages, the mere thought of surgery can spur anxious thoughts and concerns: How …
Types of retirement plans and which to consider
SoFi shares the nuances of different retirement plans, including tax benefits and drawbacks, to help people choose the right mix of plans to achieve their financial goals.
Avoiding the dentist? How technological advances are creating more positive dental experiences
(BPT) - When was the last time you saw a dentist? If you're cringing, you're not alone. According to the American Dental Association, over 100 million Americans skip going to the dentist each year, …
How to maintain and improve your plumbing this fall and winter
(BPT) - Along with shorter days and dropping temperatures, fall brings a sense of urgency to get your home in shape before winter arrives. This is especially true for plumbing, as frigid temps can …
Seniors: Prevent falls with these 3 easy moves
(BPT) - If you're an American over age 65, or have a senior loved one, you know how big of a risk falls can be in daily life. As people age, their balance becomes less steady, which can lead to an …
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Navigating “Gramnesia” This Holiday Season

Navigating “Gramnesia” This Holiday Season

(NewsUSA) - “Gramnesia,” a popular portmanteau term coined from the words “grandparents” and “amnesia," is taking the internet by storm, including a recent mention in the HuffPost. The …

Choosing between Medicare and Medicare Advantage plans is tricky

The 67 million Americans eligible for Medicare make an important decision every October: Should they make changes in their Medicare health insurance plans for the next calendar year?

5 tips to help you choose your 2025 health benefits

(BPT) - As millions of Americans evaluate their health plan options during this fall’s open enrollment season, a new survey finds that 3 in 5 Americans incorrectly defined key health care …

Chronic stomach pain leads to a rare disease diagnosis

(BPT) - Stomach pain, nausea and brain fog can be uncomfortable to experience. Imagine living with these symptoms every day without knowing their cause or being able to manage and rid yourself of …

Is healthcare sharing right for you? 3 essential questions

(BPT) - Obtaining necessary care in today’s financial and healthcare landscape can be a daunting challenge for many U.S. families. According to the 2023 Milliman Medical Index, a family of four …

AI and cyberthreats: How to protect your home network

(BPT) - With AI and cybersecurity threats regularly in the news, you may wonder how this might affect your home network and personal devices. According to the Comcast Business 2024 Cybersecurity …

Treat 'tech neck' with this 'magic' product developed by dermatologists and plastic surgeons

(BPT) - Did you know that spending extended time hunched over your phone can take a serious toll on your neck? Commonly referred to as 'tech neck' or 'text neck,' this habit can lead to the …

'Constantly stressed out': A woman's battle with excess cortisol

(BPT) - For Janice, health and fitness were always priorities. Growing up in Jamaica, she’d been a sprinter for her high school track team. After moving to the U.S. in her mid-20s, she built a …

How one 83-year-old fell into a fraudster’s fear bubble – and how gift cards played a key role

Wednesday morning, the day before Thanksgiving, Mae awoke, set her hair in curlers and switched on her laptop. A message appeared. It said her Safari web browser had encountered a problem, and a link …

Digital Literacy Tips for Older Adults

(Family Features) If current trends continue, decades of gentle teasing and jokes about older adults' confusion with technology may be on their way out. Boost your digital literacy with these tips.

Identifying Volunteer Opportunities for Older Adults

(Family Features) Many older adults look for variety, flexibility and benefits when searching for a way to volunteer. Consider these opportunities that match volunteers' interests and skills with local non-profit organizations.
7 tips to help protect you from financial fraud
(BPT) - Scammers seem to be getting more and more sophisticated, and older adults are often the target — especially of financial scams. In fact, scams targeting Americans 60 and older resulted …
Brushing Away Hospital Risks: The Importance of Proper Oral Care
(BPT) - Whether you’re the patient or the worried loved one, a hospital stay is often a whirlwind of stress, uncertainty and endless beeps from machines. Amid the chaos, it’s easy to …
Protect Your Loved Ones this Fire Prevention Month
(BPT) - Who doesn’t love autumn? Glorious leaves crunching underfoot, crisp air, ripe apples, everything pumpkin spice. It’s arguably the most beautiful time of year — and one with …
What Older Adults Need to Know About Flu and COVID-19 Vaccines
(Family Features) Colder weather brings a change in seasons and often an uptick in flu and COVID-19 cases. Here are answers to commonly asked questions about flu and COVID-19 vaccines.
Don’t just age, age better: 5 longevity tips for healthier aging
(BPT) - Do you know how well you’re aging? Aging well goes beyond how you look. To live a healthier, more active lifestyle as you age, it’s important to know your current health baseline …
Emergency housing resources for older Americans in need
Caring.com provides a guide to resources for emergency housing and how to access them amid an increasing number of older Americans experiencing or at risk of homelessness.
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What one man learned about the value of precise imaging for prostate cancer

(BPT) - When retired aerospace engineer Steve Sakakini was diagnosed with prostate cancer at the age of 61, his doctor said he'd have to have his prostate removed. Caught off guard, Sakakini sought a …

Do you or a loved one have advanced multiple myeloma?

(BPT) - Two clinical trials are seeking adults for research on an investigational medicine for relapsed and/or refractory multiple myeloma.Multiple myeloma is a rare bone marrow cancer, and about …

Skip the waiting room: How professional online second opinions services simplify healthcare

(BPT) - Getting a second opinion after a medical diagnosis has been a routine part of healthcare for nearly as long as doctors have been diagnosing patients. However, the process of getting a second …

How to have a truly meaningful travel experience

(BPT) - Do you want to explore the sights, sounds, smells and tastes of unique cultures and landscapes up close and personal? If so, you might be attracted to "adventure" or "active" travel. However, …

Digital fraud is on the rise: 6 ways to prevent it

(BPT) - Are you more worried about fraud than you were a few years ago? According to the 2024 Trust Index Report by Telesign, almost 60% of people worldwide and nearly half of all Americans are more …

Finding the Perfect Volunteer Opportunity for You

(Family Features) Many older adults look for variety, flexibility and benefits when searching for a way to volunteer. Consider these opportunities that match volunteers' interests and skills with local non-profit organizations.
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